Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Just can't sit still
Carpe Diem.
Monday, December 28, 2009
Chemo 10 (Round 6)
My check up with Dr. Schraeder went well and we have decided to go with a treatment schedule of 4 weeks, 3 weeks, 3 weeks, 4 weeks etc. etc. This will give me somewhat of a break every third cycle. My scans will still be on a 2-3 month schedule. The next scan is January 18th, 2010. My weight is stable at 150 lbs and the blood work was all fine. The treatment went well and I'm loving my new port.
Carpe Diem.
Friday, December 25, 2009
Merry Christmas
Carpe Diem.
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Coming soon
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Off again - bloody hell !
Tomorrow Diana and I are off to Israel. We are primarily going for the daughter of one of our best friends wedding. They are very special friends and she is one really special young lady. It's going to be like a major reunion and a lot of fun.
Carpe Diem.
Friday, December 11, 2009
My doggie
Thursday, December 10, 2009
The MouseSkin update
Sorry if this disturbs anyone. Just skip this post! Here is the latest update on the MouseSkin family.
"We have a total of 12 mice. From the initial implantation, there are 9 mice with measurable tumors and another with a palpable tumor. The two mice that were propagated into the next generation are growing tumors but one has not been growing as well. As I mentioned before, we have also propagated additional mice in our facility in Texas. One of these mice had a small tumor starting to grow and last week, it was excised and reimplanted using a process we are hopeful will stimulate faster growth. It is still too early to estimate the timing of when the testing will begin."
From Sara Parkerson.
Thank you MouseSkin family.
Carpe Diem.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Still here
You're not supposed to text while crotch warming in NY state!!!
In the evening Phil arranged for my niece Hannah, and me to go to see this really cool magician by the name of Steve Cohen. Google him, he is quite famous. The show was really entertaining and quite impressive.
What mundane lives we live in Baltimore. Over the past couple of days I have met some pretty amazing and interesting people. Shakers and movers!!!
Carpe Diem.
Monday, December 7, 2009
Chemo 9 (Round 6) and more.........
And then it was off to New York to surprise Phil for her birthday. It was a dual celebration - office holiday party and low key birthday celebration. Well, the surprise worked. Hiding my face behind a dozen red roses (stolen from a blind street vendor - just kidding) I went right up to her and wished her happy birthday. All I can say is, pictures to follow. It was a great party. I met so many amazing and interesting people. Not to mention all the really nice office staff.
Happy birthday Phil.
Carpe Diem.
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
GlobalGiving challenge
177 unique donors
US$24,085 in donations
US$10,860 in GlobalGiving matching funds
US$1,000 in GlobalGiving bonus funds
US$35,945 raised in total
These funds should really help us with the content and quality of the meals the kids are currently getting and help with medical expenses. Hopefully, we will be able to get a small second hand truck. This would be a tremendous asset for us. Eventually, these funds will also help with adding to the number of kids we already assist.
Carpe Diem.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
The Power Port
Carpe Diem.
Friday, November 27, 2009
Thanksgiving
Monday, November 23, 2009
A note to the Grim Reaper
So far this year you have taken away my favourite dancer Michael Jackson,
My favourite actor Patrick Swayze,
My favourite actress Farrah Fawcett and
my favourite singer Stephen Gatelly.
Just so you know, my favourite politician is Robert Mugabe!!!
Carpe Diem.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Watch out for SCAMS
"Hope you get this on time,sorry I didn't inform you about my trip in UK for a programm in , I'm presently in UK and am having some difficulties here because i misplaced my wallet on my way to the hotel where my money and other valuable things were kept. presently i have limited access to internet,I will like you to assist me with a loan of 1500$ to sort-out my hotel bills and to get myself back home.
i have spoken to the embassy here but they are not responding to the matter effectively,I will appreciate whatever you can afford to assist me with,I'll Refund the money back to you as soon as i return,let me know if you can be of any help.I don't have a phone where i can be reached.
Please let me know immediately."
Let me say first and foremost that the reason I got involved with ZimKids was because of Dennis and the wonderful work he was doing with kids in Bulawayo. Dennis Gaboury is an incredibly honest, decent and generous individual. Secondly , and just as important, at no time were any funds or donations compromised at ZimKids or GlogalGiving. They just hijacked Dennis's email and tried this idiotic scam that no one fell for. Dennis has since changed his email and has been in touch with Yahoo security.
Once again, to all you wonderful and generous donors out there, thank you. Just be careful!
Carpe Diem.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
The Doctors visits
The heart Doc was very pleased with the results of the 24 hour heart monitor that I wore last week. He has cut back on one of the two meds I'm taking now (the tougher of the two) and I'm also on a minimal dose for both. I could be off both meds in about 4 months. Yea ha ole.
Both Docs have also cleared me to have the port reinserted. I will probably be doing it before my next chemo on December 7th.
Max and I are now on our best behaviour as Diana came back from London this past Monday evening. She had a really nice time except for a couple of days of gale force winds. Alas, no tennis!
Carpe Diem.
Monday, November 16, 2009
Chemo 8 (Round 6)
It took this long because my veins were not cooperating and I had to get "poked" 5 times. Sometimes the veins behave and sometimes they act like fishing worms about to get baited. Mine were fishing worms on steroids.
Something about 5's today!
The blood work was fine, the checkup was good and I'm feeling OK and I put on a couple of lbs. Just full of holes. I am contemplating having the latest and greatest portacath reinstalled. Here is the info about the portacath:
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
In medicine, a port (or portacath) is a small medical appliance that is installed beneath the skin. A catheter connects the port to a vein. Under the skin, the port has a septum through which drugs can be injected and blood samples can be drawn many times, usually with less discomfort for the patient than a more typical "needle stick".
Ports are used mostly to treat hematology and oncology patients, but recently ports have been adapted also for hemodialysis patients.
The port is usually inserted in the upper chest, just below the clavicle or collar bone, leaving the patient's hands free.
Carpe Diem.Saturday, November 14, 2009
Escape from the "Madness Of King Luca"
Carpe Diem.
Friday, November 13, 2009
T.I.A.
Quite simply put, it explains the beauty, simplicity and tranquility of Africa. Well, most of it. You can gaze at sights like Victoria Falls or Kilimanjaro and say "ooo This is Africa". You can spend time amongst the people and say, "wow, This Is Africa". You can watch lion bring down and eat a buffalo and say "geez This Is Africa".
Consequently, you can listen to the politicians of Africa and exclaim "now This Is Africa". You can go to the store to get milk and only have two choices. Milk or nothing. "This Is Africa". Or you could deal with the bureaucracy and corruption and say "s#!t This Is Africa".
This leads to my next point. Some of you have voiced concern about using credit cards to make donations because it seems that there are an abnormal amount of internet scams that seem to originate out of Africa. Please do what makes you comfortable. If that means not donating because of your concern for internet scams then I fully understand. Please also understand that GlobalGiving is a Virginia, USA based organization. Our link with them is purely to give us global exposure. We can still accept donations the old fashioned way (not trying to be condescending) by sending the check donation directly to me and I will forward the funds in their entirety to our people in Zim. If you are considering this method then make the checks out to Adrian Suskin with a memo note "For ZimKids". Thank you all.
Carpe Diem.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
While the cats away......................
Parking in Manhattan is absurd. Really expensive and difficult to find. So when you do get a spot you never want to leave. The problem is when you find something it may have a no parking street cleaning day. There was a Seinfeld episode that showed that very problem. Hilarious. Well, I lived this very episode. It was like synchronized car parking. Bloody funny to watch but equally funny to be a part of.
Max and Luca (the Polskin family dog) have been getting on famously. They have really been having a grand time together. Sort of rejuvenated Max. Or nearly killed him!
Carpe Diem.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Social butterfly
Oh yea, they removed the 24 hour heart monitor yesterday after.............you guessed it, 24 hours. Results pending. Nurse Torquemada (from the Spanish Inquisition) removed the tape and the 7 glued on leads and in the process also removed copious amounts of hair and skin. Why in the hell would anyone want a waxing!!!
Carpe Diem.
Sorry to bug you again
Feed Zimbabwean Orphans, Body and Soul
http://www.globalgiving.co
Put as little as $10 (or whatever) on your credit card. We need unique (different credit card or check numbers) donors as well as the $$$ to win this challenge. You can read about this at the link below and you will understand more. The matching funds can pay for infrastructure like a vehicle and the donations go straight to the kids. At this point we can expand programs and numbers (helping more kids).
http://www.globalgiving.co
Thanks in advance.
Carpe Diem
Monday, November 9, 2009
Heart monitor and meds
I will also be seeing the "infectious diseases" doctor next Tuesday to see if I can also stop taking the antibiotics I've been on since May. You gotta love that title.
If all goes well it will be great to get off these three meds. Three down and a gazillion to go!
Carpe Diem.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
How do I feel you ask?
I still have days when I go through the "why me?" thoughts. And the answer is always the same. Who else did you have in mind? There are so many others battling this lousy disease and doing much worse than I am. So, for that I'm grateful.
I just want to say how lucky I feel to be surrounded and supported by so many good friends and wonderful family members. For this alone, I am one of the luckiest people around. I am forever in your debt.
To my flying friends (family), I cannot begin to tell you all how much I miss your company and camaraderie. Thank you for keeping in touch and keeping me in your thoughts. There isn't a day go by that I don't think of all the amazing sights and places we visited. It's been almost two years since I last flew (worked)and do I miss it? You bet.
Carpe Diem.
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
The MouseSkin update
Carpe Diem.
Monday, November 2, 2009
My weekend near Bernie's (Palm Beach house)
Carpe Diem.
Friday, October 30, 2009
Fishing and a night at the Fontainbleau
We rested in the afternoon from the rigors of battling the behemoths from the deep and then drove down to the Fontainbleau Hotel in Miami where Howard had a business appointment with the National Sales Director, Louis. A few words about pulling into the driveway of the ultra-chic
Fontainbleau Hotel, which just completed a billion dollar renovation and is now the outpost for all that is hip and happening in South Florida, which is to say the world. There are Beamers, there are Porches, there are Bentleys, there are Hummers. And then there is Adrian and Howard puttering up to valet parking in the Bobba-mobile, my mom's 10-year-old Toyota Camry that was covered fender to fender with God-awful dust from the relentless construction taking place at her building. They almost made us take the servants’ entrance. But we met Louis in the lobby and he showed us this unbelievably stunning hotel that is famous the world over for its sweeping and curving facade (remember the pool scene in Goldfinger at the opening…..it was shot at the hotel). Louis then took us to dinner at the hotel’s premiere Italian restaurant, where we had a outdoor table overlooking the ocean and the pool. The waiter was pushing the goat very hard but Howard said he had a goat sandwich for lunch before he left NY so we passed. Dessert was a delicious gold guava soup with custard and a sweet biscuit. Just perfect. Thanks How and Louis.
Carpe Diem.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
A pain in the arse
The rest of the trip to Boca was fine. Nothing like Southwest Airlines business class and their fine cuisine. After landing and exiting the terminal, it was like getting smacked in the face by a toaster. Hot as hell. If only we could average the temperatures out. It would be nice to borrow a few degrees for January and February in Baltimore. Yea, I know. Move to San Diego.
Carpe Diem.
Monday, October 26, 2009
Chemo 7 (Round 6)
I'm still receiving the Alimta and the Avastin and as long as they are keeping things at bay we continue. It's kind of weird because the first couple of days I feel good and then I have a few rough days. Fatigue and slight nausea. Nothing a nap and a few good drugs can't take care of. I try and keep a journal every couple of months to see if the symptoms remain more or less constant. They seem to. Post chemo days 3-6 are tough and then sometimes days 7-10. Diana seems to know my schedule and symptoms before I do!
Carpe Diem.
Friday, October 23, 2009
What's coming up
The MouseSkin family continues on their merry tumor ridden way. I will get an update next week. It still seems like we will be on schedule to start testing them early next year. The good thing is that as long as the current drugs are keeping things more or less under control then the sense of urgency is somewhat diminished. But with this disease you just never know.
From a traveling perspective, there is loads coming up. Next week in Boca. November in London. December in Israel and Boca. And new years on a boat cruise. I love it. 2010 brings us to South Africa for world cup and somewhere before that, a possible trip to Zim to catch up with ZimKids. If anyone has any trip suggestions please let me know :)
I hope this weather is through Cape Town before we get there. This is a pilot's worst nightmare!
Carpe Diem.
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
OK say it
Yes, I have been remiss in keeping up with the blog but maybe it's a good thing. I have been feeling fairly well lately. People tell me I look good. But in all honesty, who would walk up to someone with a known illness and tell them they look like crap. Come to think of it. Maybe I would. No, not really.
What I'm trying to say in a very round about convoluted way is I am grateful for what I have and how I am doing. I know this sounds weird but I obviously have no choice. There are so many family and friends enduring all sorts of awful stuff. Like I said before, If I have 5 lousy days and 21 good days between treatment I am ahead of the game. Sadly, there is always someone else worse off than me!
Carpe Diem.
Monday, October 19, 2009
What the Toronto trip was aboot
Our primary reason for the visit was to attend Justin Polgar's Barmitzvah. Justin is the son of one of Diana's oldest (time) and best friends, Suzy. The Barmy was a hoot and it was great to all be together with so many good friends. I keep saying "old" friends and it seems like we should all be in nursing homes but the "old" refers to friends we have know for a very long time. Just like the mates I grew up with in Zim, a lot of the hoser canuck friends are who Diana grew up with in Toronto.
We also spent a lot of time eating out at restaurants that we have been frequenting for the past couple of decades. Damn, we are getting old! I did not get to see everyone I wanted to or eat at more places but there is just so much time in a day. Even in Canada. Til next time.
Carpe Diem Eh.
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Friday, October 9, 2009
A visit to the vet
Today, we had more fun. Well, not really. On our usual walk through our forest Max got stung by a bunch of f*@king bees. We had to take him to the vet where they gave him a steroid and benadryl shot. I was really lucky not to get stung as I was helping him. He is doing fine now. Quite a tough boy. I now officially hate honey!
The kids are home this weekend from school. So much for the empty nest!
Carpe Diem.
Monday, October 5, 2009
Chemo 6 (Round 6)
We met with Dr. Schraeder (my Oncologist) and he was very pleased with the last scans. While the malignancy is still showing up in the right lung pleura (fluid) it has diminished slightly. The best news is that there is still no evidence of spread to anywhere else. The 2 drugs that I am receiving every 3 weeks seems to be doing the job for now. Dr. Schraeder even said that if I wanted an extra week during some of the treatments that it would be okay. I can think of one place where I would want 4 weeks off. World Cup 2010 in South Africa!!!
The MouseSkin family is progressing well. There is a chance that we may be able to begin testing early next year.
Carpe Diem.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Weekend in New York
Sunday morning Diana, Max and I went to Stamford Connecticut to visit Jack and Donna. We had a wonderful brunch with them and great conversations. But the visit was too short as we had to get back to New York in time for the beginning (start) of Yom Kippur. Early afternoon Diana managed to squeeze in a really good dance show thanks to Phil's connections. I managed to squeeze in a really good nap!
On Monday some went to services and some stayed home. Monday evening a couple of Phil and How's good friends and a few co-workers came to break the fast with all of us. After a quick but good, filling meal the three of us drove back to Baltimore. It was a fun and action packed weekend.
Carpe Diem.
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Scan results
Overall good news. The disease is still there (in the right pleura) but it has reduced in size and has not spread to anywhere else. This is good as it tells the doctors that the chemo is working for me at this time. I will discuss these results with Dr. Sidransky (MouseSkin Dr.) as well.
Am I cured? Hardly. Am I happy with the results? Yes, of course. As long as we can "manage " this disease I will be a happy chappy. We will see what the future brings and what the MouseSkins will tell us. Until then................
By the way, the Man U shirt with AIG on the front is a sponsorship arrangement. In no way do I support or condone AIG's business practices!
Carpe Diem
Monday, September 21, 2009
Scans today
Carpe Diem.
Sunday, September 20, 2009
A ZimKids thank you from Dennis
The 30 days of the Global Giving
challenge have ended and I'm writing to report that we raised an astronomical
$26,801, putting us in third place! In fact, we were at the top of the heap
until the last minute. Only three or four days before the end of the
competition did we discover that the other organizations that raised
significant amounts of money have US based paid staffs and professional
fundraisers. So we're still almost incredulous that Zimkids, which has only
volunteers in the US, emerged in such high standing.
The folks who run Global Giving were so impressed that they have informed us that they plan to feature Zimkids both in their publicity and in their dealings with large donors.
Pretty fantastic, what amazing friends my wife, Elli Burkett, our trustee, Adrian Suskin, our volunteer web designer, Hezvo Mpunga and I have. I will now return to Zimbabwe in November with enough money to not just fill stomachs with staple foods but to round out their diets
with meat, eggs and more vegetables in addition to covering their medical
expenses, other emergency needs but also to enhance the social and educational programs.
I wish I could say more than thank you,
that I could throw us all an enormous party with the kids in Pumula North so
that they could meet the generous organizations and individuals who will keep
them safe for the coming years!
Dennis.
Carpe Diem.
Saturday, September 19, 2009
GlobalGiving Challenge
Thanks to the incredible generosity of so many people ZimKids was able to come in third and earn an extra US$1000. We did not miss first and second place by much!!!
1st. Education Scholarships for Child Laborers in India raised US$27,686 and 262 unique donors.
2nd. Support Entrepreneurial Drive of Women in Ghana raised US$27,373 and 121 unique donors.
3rd. Feed Zimbabwean Orphans, Body and Soul raised US$26,801 and 112 unique donors.
We are absolutely thrilled at the results and cannot thank each and every one of you enough. I do, however, want to single out the Foundation at the Independent Pilot's Association. The trustees involved in making this decision to help and the ultimate generosity of the pilot group (of which I belong) makes me very proud and honored to be a part of.
From all of us at ZimKids.com, thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
Carpe Diem.
Friday, September 18, 2009
Rosh Hashana (The new year)
Carpe Diem.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
New added stuff
Oh yea. It's not too late. We need lots more unique donors. Small amounts will do and do one for your pet!
http://www.globalgiving.com/dy/v2/globalchallenge.html
Carpe Diem.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Sorry to appeal again
http://www.zimkids.com/new/
http://www.globalgiving.com/projects/zimkids-feeds-zimbabwean-orphans-body-and-soul/
http://www.globalgiving.com/dy/v2/globalchallenge.html
Carpe Diem.
An email from Dennis to the Foundation trustees
To say I am overwhelmed is an understatement! Thank you and the trustees of the IPA Foundation for your generous assistance to Zimkids. Over the last year, we have nearly tripled the number of orphans we serve at the same moment that the price of food has skyrocketed. The dolls the children make pay for the basic food package they all receive, but we have been struggling to meet growing medical expenses. Your donation will allow us to ensure that the kids with HIV and those with tuberculosis get consistent treatment, as well as to meet the raft of other diseases all of the children contract. We will also use the funds you have provided to improve the variety and nutritional content of the food we presently distribute which has been woefully short on protein.
Over the course of the coming months we will be happy to provide you with an accounting of how and for what we use the funds.
I told Tinashe Basa, Prosper Modhi and Sipho Nyoni, our trustees in Zimbabwe, about this wonderful gift. They asked me to pass along their deepest thanks, both to you and to Adrian, who has been such a stalwart friend to all of us.
Sincerely
Dennis Gaboury
Founder, Trustee Zimkids Orphan Trust
Carpe Diem.
Monday, September 14, 2009
A wonderful surprise today
I cannot begin to explain the generosity of this pilot group of which I am very proud to be associated with. We are all fortunate to be employed by a very good company (UPS) making very good livings. Of course, as pilots, we can always find things to complain and whine about. It's simply part of our core being (I say this with tongue in cheek)! However, while we may not all agree on every cause the Foundation Trustees choose to support we all, non the less, understand the concept and idea of giving back. In this particular case the trustees choose to support the ZimKids project with an incredible initial donation that almost meets a third of our yearly budget.
I have difficulty explaining how much this donation and it's source mean to me. Even though I have been on extended medical leave my Company and of course, my Association has never forgotten me. The love, caring and prayers from so many of my flying "family" mean the world to me and has been an incredible source of support. I am humbled, honored and truly touched by all of this. Words are simply not enough to express my gratitude. I am and will forever be a very proud member of this group of people.
To all of you, I say, may you all have blue sky and tail winds and of course, safe flying. Remember to trust your bodies in what they are trying to tell you and may you all stay in good health.
With deep gratitude, love and affection,
Adrian Suskin,
B757/767 Captain Louisville.
http://www.zimkids.com/new/
http://www.globalgiving.com/projects/zimkids-feeds-zimbabwean-orphans-body-and-soul/
http://www.globalgiving.com/dy/v2/globalchallenge.html
Carpe Diem.
Chemo 5 (Round6)
Carpe Diem.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
A nice story - sort of !
After the game Rob and I were standing at the entrance to White Hart Lane waiting to see if we could get a couple of pictures with some of the players as they left. We met this young brother and sister who were obviously doing the same thing as us. They started to tell and show us about all the autographs they had gotten and people they had met (i.e. Sir Alex Ferguson). Somehow during the conversation the sister, by mistake, started to mention her brothers health problems and then abruptly stopped. The brother then took over and proceeded to tell us that he had Leukemia and that he was currently undergoing chemotherapy treatment. I thought to myself, what an awful common bond I had with this unknown kid. I told him of my treatment and we high fived and wished each other well. Now for the weird twist. He told us his dad was currently in treatment for the same disease. Wow!
Cancer knows no boundaries or limits. Awful and indiscriminate with no regard for rich or poor, young or old, black or white yadda, yadda, yadda.
Carpe Diem.
Our time in London
So I arrived early Friday morning after a delightful cell phone/airport fiasco. I spent over two hours in the immigration line and my cell phone did not get a signal. Needless to say, dad, Russ and Gerry were pretty worried. I finally found my driver and got to the Bass house at around 10 in the morning. My dad was the only one there in his PJ’s. Very nice. Anyways, we took the tube to
Saturday morning, I wanted to sleep some more but we had hair appointments with Russ’ guy Peter at a salon in the city/ Peter did Russ’ hair, which looks lovely, and then fixed mine up. I said I wanted hair like Cheryl Cole’s. He cut it a little shorter in the front, but left the back longer, and he managed to thin it out, treat my scalp and give it some body to boot. I love it and it looks amazing. Thanks Peter! And Bobba’s friend, the Duchess of Kent was there as well. After that, we went with the boys for a quickie hamburger lunch before heading out to Peter Murphy’s house to go to the soccer match. We arrived promptly at
United: Foster, O’Shea, Evra, Vidic, Ferdinand, Fletcher, GIGGS (c), Scholes, Anderson, Rooney, Berbatov. Bench: Kuz, Evans, Fabio,
Spurs: Cudicini, Corluka, Assou Ekotto, King, Bassong, Keane (c), Lennon, Huddlestone, Palacios, Crouch, Defoe. Bench: Gomes, Hutton, Pavs, Bentley, Jenas…
So the game kicks off. Peter, perhaps unwisely because he is the Spurs fan and box holder, has brought 7 Manchester United fans with him. After 52 seconds, he was ecstatic as Jermain Defoe scored a SICK bicycle kick. Everyone else in the box…pissed. At least we will win some money. Then, United settled into the game, Berbatov getting booed on every touch. He won a free kick about 5 yards outside the area. Who would it be? Not Ronaldo. Rooney or Giggs, Rooney or Giggs, Rooney or…GIGGS! YOU BEAUTY. Giggsy scores a brilliant free kick to draw us level! Didn’t bet on that, but I was ecstatic. My all time favorite player happens to score when I’m there. After that, United really took control. Berba missed a sitter and Rooney had a few chances as well. A few minutes before the half, Spurs failed to clear a corner and the ball rolled to
Afterwards, we had to wait for everyone to clear out. I was mulling the area looking for players, and apparently, I missed SIR ALEX, Sir Bobby Charlton and David Gill! Silly me. James also said he saw Crouchy and we just missed cutie David Bentley. But I did snag a photo with Alan Hutton and he was very nice. His Lambo’s plate number is “X HU77ON” haha. No prizes to guess whose car that is. Then we loaded into Peter’s van and headed back to his house, where we played with the dogs before Gerry picked us up and we headed back home. When we got back, Ruth and David/Doody were there so we spent some time chatting but I was tired so I headed upstairs to pack and went to sleep.
This morning, got up relatively early to head out to the airport. Said bye to Russ and Gerry drove us. Didn’t get to say a proper goodbye to the boys though! It was so great to see everyone even for such a short period of time. Next time, I will be back for longer to spend more time with the gang. I had a GREAT time, especially at the game. What a wonderful experience and we got some good photos. Now, I have to head back to school. I haven’t done any work and I have to get a doctor’s note and make up a lab. I might be in trouble here…
Carpe Diem.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Cricket
Cricket: As explained to a foreigner...
You have two sides, one out in the field and one in. Each man that's in the
side that's in goes out, and when he's out he comes in and the next man goes
in until he's out. When they are all out, the side that's out comes in and
the side that's been in goes out and tries to get those coming in, out.
Sometimes you get men still in and not out.
When a man goes out to go in, the men who are out try to get him out, and
when he is out he goes in and the next man in goes out and goes in. There
are two men called umpires who stay out all the time and they decide when
the men who are in are out. When both sides have been in and all the men
have been out, and both sides have been out twice after all the men have
been in, including those who are not out, that is the end of the game
Got it?
Carpe Diem.
Sunday, September 6, 2009
I'm off again
The car was officially declared a "submarine" and consequently, written off. The sport court was repaired so things are mostly back to normal at home!!! Believe it or not, Diana and I are sort of enjoying this almost empty nest. We still have to hang out with Max. Having said that, it's still great seeing the Knoblets (kids) when we can.
Mike came home this weekend. It was good to see him again (even after 1 week). So far, he says school is going just fine. Diana's Laundry service was in full swing today. Even Robyn sent stuff home to be washed. No visit from her this time but I will see her Friday in London for an action packed few days. We will both return to the States on Sunday September 13th.
Carpe Diem.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Gomes does McDonald's
We took a couple of new printers to Rob and Mike at University and decided to take Max with us. He had a ball and on the way home we stopped to eat. Yes, I had something too!!!
Rob (Junior) and Mike (Freshman), best of luck for the new school year.
Carpe Diem.
Friday, August 28, 2009
Our very first family U-Boat commander
I had a day free in Louisville between trips, so I came to visit Adrian and Diana for a day and a half. I expected a quiet time discussing old times and trying to offer support for our friend. How wrong I was. This place is action packed. Ade picked me up at the airport, and we drove home for a happy reunion with Diana and Mike. Robyn left 2 days ago for university. She went back early so she could teach the soccer referees that she supervises at the school. I think that's so cool. Diana asked whether we wanted her to cook chicken for us, and Adrian stood behind her and mouthed NO so she wouldn't see him, but that I would get the message. Ade, let me assure you, is in very fine form, and despite the horrendous battles of the past 2 years, he is as funny as ever. He told me afterwards that he prefers to eat out rather than savor Diana's cooking. We met up with Mike and his mate Kevin at the hamburger joint, and had a darn fine meal. We came home, and chatted until about 10pm I had flown through the night so I was very tired.
At about 1am, even though, I was wearing earplugs, and the room was dark from the blinds, I was woken by flashing lightning and booming thunder. I was exhausted, so I went back to sleep until 8 the next morning. Adrian and Diana didn't. Firstly, their mad dog Max was terrified of the storm outside, and he kept walking over Ade and Diana in their bed. He was panting and salivating and Adrian was trying not to become annoyed with the clearly afraid dog. Then at 1:30am, Mike sms'd to say that he was with his friends, and didn't want to come home in the storm. The plan for the next day however, was to take Mike off to move into his dorm at university. Adrian had Mike wait for the storm to subside, and when he sensed that it was over, Adrian sms'd Mike to "COME HOME NOW, and to be careful of the water from the storm." I slept though all of this.
At about 2:15am Ade received a frantic phone call from Mike to say that he had inadvertently driven his car into a huge puddle (stream) that stretched across the road, that the car had stalled mid-stream, and that the water was rising in the car. Ade told Mike to get out of the car. Ade then jumped out of bed, put on some jeans and a t-shirt and went tearing out of the house to help is son, not knowing where he was exactly and whether he was safe. They stayed on the phone together until Ade located, parked next to the fast moving stream, waded poopick (shtritzel) deep into the water, rescued and placated Mike. He brought him home, and then with Diana, went back to the river to call the police who he had called en route. The car was now being buffeted around in the river, so the policeman arranged the car to be towed away, and for the road to be closed. Ade came home and fell asleep at 3am. I slept through all of this.
At 4am, the police called to tell Diana where the car had been towed to. At 7:30am, Diana's tennis partner called to enquire whether Diana wanted to play tennis. She did not. I slept through all of this, but I woke up at 8am to see Adrian working at the computer. He told me about the night's activities by telling me that Mike had become the Suskins' first U-Boat commander. Then he told me to look outside. A eighty foot tree had come down in the storm (that I slept through,) and it fell on the tennis/sports court. The branches and trunk fell onto the fence around the court collapsing it like it was made of paper. The court is destroyed.
The day was a lot less eventful. We took Mike off to school when he woke up at 10am. He has a beautiful room with a very tall roommate. They came to university well equipped for study with a 27 inch flat screen TV, two of the latest video game systems, electric guitars and a nice refrigerator in the room. It ought to be a most productive year.
This evening, we sat eating dinner ( a delicious dinner that Diana cooked,) and they came to the cold realization that they are now empty nesters. They had a good giggle about it, and that's how this day has been. Some pretty heavy incidents and significant realizations, but Adrian and Diana deal with this with humour and gratitude. I have really enjoyed being with them today, and leave this evening happy in the knowledge that their love and humor is intact, and that through this, they will win this battle.
Carpe Diem.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Wow
Oh yea, it's never too late to donate. Hey, that rhymes.
http://www.globalgiving.com/projects/zimkids-feeds-zimbabwean-orphans-body-and-soul/
http://www.globalgiving.com/dy/v2/globalchallenge.html
Thank you so much.
Carpe Diem.
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
I'm sick of doctors
Then I met with Dr. Alikhan (the Heart doctor). My ECG was good and he has cut back on one of the 2 meds I'm on. The tougher of the 2. In a couple of months we will meet again and after a 24 hour heart monitor, if all goes well, he will take me off of all the meds. Yee Haa Ole.
Carpe Diem.
Monday, August 24, 2009
Chemo 4 (Round 6)
In the afternoon we met Dr. Sadransky (the Mouseman). He briefed us as to where we were with the MouseSkin family and generally what should be happening over the next few months. Out of the 100+ page report he explained 2 relevant and important pages to us in detail. I'll be honest with you, I still have a headache from trying to understand all of this. It's both fascinating and very, very advanced. Lets hope the results will be good. The only interesting and slightly unsettling thing was that he explained to us all drugs have a somewhat limited time of usefulness. Simply explained, the Alimta and Avastin may reach a point where they are no longer helping me. Hopefully that is when they will have the MouseSkin study and trials ready. Plus, there are lots of other options available. Anyone understand these charts? Good luck!
Carpe Diem.
Sunday, August 23, 2009
The celebrating never stops
Friday, August 21, 2009
Friday and more celebrating
Carpe Diem.
Thursday, August 20, 2009
What a cool surprise
ZimKids appeal
In the years since Dennis founded Zimkids, an orphan project in Zimbabwe, he’s struggled mightily not to hit up friends for financial support. But in his efforts to put the group on a firmer financial footing, he’s just been offered a tremendous opportunity that demands that we reach out for help. Globalgiving is an Internet charity site that holds real promise of ongoing financial support to small projects like Zimkids. A month or so ago, Zimkids was selected as a potential participant and we managed to get through their “due diligence.” But to earn a permanent place, we need at least 50 people to donate a total of at least $4000 to Zimkids via global giving over the next month. So we are turning to you all.
Many of you have already been extremely generous with Zimkids, so we are somewhat abashed about holding out the begging bowl. But if you could find a way to make a small donation – even $10 or $20 – and/or pass along this email to family and friends who might be willing to help out, we would be extremely grateful.
Over the past year, the number of orphans Zimkids is feeding has skyrocketed from 60 to 160, at the very moment that food prices have almost doubled. So securing a permanent place on globalgiving.com is incredibly important just now. It’s tax-deductible – and easy, just go to:
http://www.globalgiving.com/projects/zimkids-feeds-zimbabwean-orphans-body-and-soul/
If anyone wants more information about Zimkids, go to the website at:
http://www.zimkids.com
And, again, THANK YOU on behalf of Zimkids and all involved with the orphans of Pumula.
Warmest regards,
Adrian.
Carpe Diem.
Saturday, August 15, 2009
London Town
Cause I been around the world I've seen so many places living the life I've worked so hard to make it trading the world for money stars and power living my life at 100mph - Tinchy Stryder.
Carpe Diem.
Monday, August 10, 2009
***Updates to the blog***
There are lots of you out there that keep an eye on the blog every day or nearly everyday. For those infrequent viewers, what the hell did you expect? Just kidding. I'm honored and somewhat flattered that people even look at my blog (without getting paid). I have considered the payment option but by using my fortune in Zim dollars.
To all of you out there stay healthy and happy. If something physical bothers you get it checked out. If it's mental, don't tell anyone! I'm kidding. Get help. To my fellow and fellowess pilot friends, blue skys and tailwinds to you all. And now like Aaahnold says, "I'll be back".
P.S. Make comments. I love 'em.
Carpe Diem.
I'm off
Yes, of course I'm going to a football game. Tottenham vs Liverpool on Sunday August 16th. I can't wait to consume all that fine English cuisine. Meat pies, meat pies and more meat pies.
Diana will join me in New York on the back end of the trip for a quick birthday celebration with Phil and the Polskin family. Yes, it's my birthday. Why else would I care. As usual, please send all gifts, monies etc to the Baltimore address!!!
Carpe Diem.
Sunday, August 9, 2009
I'm jealous
Today (Sunday) our little sports reporter is off to DC to see Real Madrid play DC United. Men's soccer, in case you didn't know! She was able to get a press pass for this game, so once again, she will have on field access and the ability to interview and take pictures of of the likes of Raul, Kaka and Ronaldo. Who has her luck? Pat, are you reading this? Even though Ronaldo left Man United for Real Madrid, Rob still wants a picture and her Man U Ronaldo shirt autographed.
By the way. This game is called "football", not soccer. It's played with feet and is the most popular game world wide. Get over it.
Carpe Diem.
Monday, August 3, 2009
The article
In June 2009, Adrian began an innovative treatment program whereby doctors remove a specimen from the actual tumor and the cells are injected into mice to ultimately determine the most effective treatment options. Adrian is nearing the end of that treatment.
Chemo 3 (Round 6)
One thing that's pretty cool and interesting at chemo is the strange camaraderie amongst all the patients. Usually a quick wink and a head nod amongst each other. Sometimes a brief conversation. It says it all. You have no idea what the other person is dealing with but you know you are all in a lousy and tough battle/war with these awful diseases. I don't know how else to describe this other than "pretty cool and interesting".
The other observation is about the people that accompany the patients to their treatments. Family, friends. Who knows? But all with a common interest. To keep the patient aware that they are not fighting this disease alone The love and support comes through brilliantly like a diamond. Diana is my diamond.
Carpe Diem.
Article about B757/767 Captain Adrian Suskin
"Dear Eric,
I want to update the pilot group with information on our friend B757 Captain Adrian Suskin. In October 2007, Adrian developed a constant irritating cough as a result of what felt like a harmless tickle in his right lung. In February 2008, this cough was diagnosed as a malignant tumor. In March, Adrian began a nine week regimen of intensive radiation therapy to burn away the tumor. This was followed by a summer of chemotherapy, so by early fall, the doctors diagnosed his lung tumor gone. Adrian took off with his wife to visit Zimbabwe (his birth country,) and South Africa for a well deserved vacation. Just prior to the vacation, Adrian had one final body scan, and while he was enjoying his holiday, his oncologist called to tell him of a new cancerous site on the same lung, but this time, outside of the lung. This called for more chemotherapy, and another long battle in this ongoing war with cancer.
In June of this year, Adrian consulted with some doctors who are doing innovative research in determining which set of drugs are most effective in fighting the patient’s particular type of cancer. Different bodies respond differently to the chemotherapy protocols, so Adrian invested a chunk of his retirement money to enter this program. Our medical insurance does not cover this science. The doctor’s remove a specimen of the actual tumor, and the cells are injected into mice, which then develop the same type of tumor. The doctors then treat the mice with different protocols, and those which are most effective are then used on Adrian. Unfortunately during the tissue removal, Adrian developed an infection in his heart sac, and he became gravely ill. All chemotherapy was stopped to fight this potentially fatal setback.
Adrian remained hospitalized in intensive care, but he fought the infection, and a month later began the chemotherapy found to be the most effective by the unfortunate mice. Today, he is nearing the end of this phase of the treatment. He is putting on weight again and is finding his sense of humor that those who have flown with him remember him for. Without a doubt, Adrian is known as one of those pilots who we love to fly with because from the beginning to the end of the trip, it’ll be non stop laughter.
If you want to follow the progress of Capt Suskin, you can log onto his blog site
asuskin.blogspot.com
On that site it gives an option to reply or to contact Adrian directly. As you can imagine, especially for those who have worked with him, Adrian is very keen to hear from his UPS/IPA mates.
Adrian’s message to everyone is that cancer is an insidious disease. What appears as a small inconsequential symptom can often be the harbinger of a much more serious and even fatal condition if not treated immediately. Adrian is at home in Baltimore waiting word on whether this round of “poison” has killed the cancer in his body."
Carpe Diem and thanks Fish.